Response to Suki’s story:
I know exactly how you feel. I find it somewhat hard dealing with vit. I dont have it anywhere people can see. I mostly have it in intimate places. My husband is very visual and insist on looking. Too much info i know but i might as well be frank since this i cant share with him or friends. Who would understand? I cant help wondering if he wishes I didnt have the spots. When he looks I think its mostly out of curiosity instead of lust. It makes me feel very uncomfortable but on occasion I let him. I just grin and bare it. I wonder if it spreads will he still find me attractive.
I have noticed some light spotting on my face but my spots are limited to the waist down. I tell myself if he decides to find someone else who is whole Im better of without someone who is so shallow. Im sure that GODs purpose for me is to have a husband who adores me as I am. I also console myself with the thought that if he eventually chooses to go else where that my life wont stop. Vit does damage the self esteem but what can I do about it other than try to be happy with the way I am. Warts and all!
If you ever need someone to chat with I am here. I understand the deep thoughts and insecurities that keep us wondering am I good enough. Men are such visual creatures and unfortunately some men cant be faithful. Im sure if our husbands cheat its not because of what we look like. They will cheat because they dont hold the sanction of marriage holy. So dont worry so much if he chooses to look else where thats life and we cant stop living. Stay positive and just know beauty is only skin deep.